Jackie’s top tips for hosting a Mad Hatter’s Tea Party
Jackie Weiner from London was diagnosed with rectal cancer 12 years ago, she hosted a Mad Hatter’s Tea Party to support our vital services and lifesaving research. She shares with us her top tips for hosting a Brew Together event.
I discovered that I had rectal cancer 12 years ago, having ignored the symptoms for 18 months after my GP said it was probably piles. I now have a stoma and have named it my Prada handbag. However, I feel very lucky thanks to my surgeon and oncologist to still be here all these years later.
I learnt from that terrible time the importance of research and awareness.
When I read about Brew Together, I thought to myself how that would be much easier than running a marathon to raise funds.
I volunteered and immediately got a quick response with lots of encouragement from Karolina, the Community Fundraising Officer.
Now, I had to get on with it. I started to plan, picked a date and sent out my emails to friends and relatives. I immediately heard back from so many people that they would like to help make this happen and some who could not join me, sent a donation.
As they were so keen I started to give the event lots of thought. How could I make a cup of tea and a piece of cake more fun? I started to look online for ideas when I spotted the idea of the Mad Hatter’s Tea Party.
Little did I know that there are endless accessories to buy, from bunting, paper plates and serviettes to top hats and teapots. I had to pull back on the amount I spent. Then a few friends asked if they could make a cake and I jumped at that. So then I knew that with scones, cream and jam it was going to look and be delicious.
But what to do to make it fun? Well, that started with a glass of prosecco in their hands as they handed over their donation. I set a minimum donation of £10 – most people put more than that in the box.
While they were enjoying the tea I passed a handbag around with 15 items in it. I gave each person 20 seconds to have a rummage without looking and then they had to write down what they remembered they had felt. There were four people who had found seven items and I only had two prizes. I gave them a challenge of emptying their own handbags and the two with the most items won. One had 25 items and one had 22!!
Then came the raffle. I had four strong prizes:
- I donated a painting
- My daughter, a jewellery designer, gave away a free necklace
- Complimentary film tickets from my daughter’s mother in law who runs a film festival
- A beautiful scarf from a local boutique
With only a roomful of about 24 women they all had a good chance of winning. I charged £5 a ticket or three for £10. They all bought three tickets except for two who bought 15 and one who bought nine tickets. I was stunned.
Together we raised over £800. I couldn’t believe it. The next day I thanked everyone and I have had so many messages to tell me what fun it was. Several have asked if I could do it every year.
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